Everyone has their own way to love themselves and show their identity. You must try to remember if you ever compare yourself with someone who is less good than you? Never right? During this time you always compare yourself with people who are better than you. As an example, if a girl doesn’t text back , you must not compare yourself with men who might get her text them back, so you can simply wait for her to text you back for a few days, and if she is still not giving you a reply, you only need to move on.
Actually, it’s good when you compare yourself to someone better than you if you can make this a motivation to improve yourself. However, what has happened so far when you compare yourself to others who are better is that you feel inferior and cannot be better than them. This is a sign that you cannot love yourself. Though everyone has their own way to respect themselves and show their identity.
One way to respect yourself is to always give positive suggestions to yourself and realize that each person must have advantages and disadvantages of each, each person is different and unique depending on the person’s personality.
If you are not as handsome and rich as he is, you must have a plus that he does not have. Maybe you are more sociable and have a lot of friends than him who is always busy with his busy making money. You may try to find out what are the strengths and weaknesses that you have so that you really know the qualities and strengths of yourself.
Every person has a different struggle to get what he wants. Maybe this is what causes you to always compare yourself with others because your struggle to get what you want has not been as painful and tiring as people who make you envious so far.
You do not know the struggle that he did become like this now, you know only see it as successful now. Do not compare yourself, but compare your struggles so that you are motivated to do the same struggle or even better than him to get what you want.